No. Being critical of yourself is a symptom not the cause. The cause of your lack of self respect is because you put yourself in situations that you deep down inside KNOW are not ideal… Like with this Every living moment for me is pain da don shirt. This is CLEARLY a big fat NO, GET OUT NOW scenario, but you’re rationalizing staying, even though you know she doesn’t value you. If you knowingly stay with someone who does not value or respect you, then how TF can you respect yourself? See? YOU are the cause for allowing these situations to exist.
I say this with such confidence because I wasted 9 years of my life doing the same damn thing, and I easily recognize it in others now. Respect is EARNED my dude, and you have not earned your own respect YET… But good news is you can, by doing something worthy of self respects – LEAVE… Be STRONG, and you’ll never be the same. You’ll be better.
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And so on… But let me tell you, the hardest thing for me to realize was this Every living moment for me is pain da don shirt WAS who she was all along, it’s just she hid it so well because that’s what narcissists DO. See, all my friends would hear the stories and say “Dude how’d you not see what she was doing to you for 9 whole years!” Me: “Because I never knew to look for the red flags because never in a million years did I think she was capable of being such a sack of shit human to me”…
Narcissists will NEVER respect you, so you need to get out of the “maybe I can save this” frame of thought! You cannot, because as a narcissist she is INCAPABLE of ever putting you on the same level as her. She will ALWAYS look down on you and find ways to manipulate and get away with things behind your back because she is incapable of feeling shame for her own actions. Only disgust for you when you catch her. In other words you will NEVER be able to trust her, and your life WILL BE MISERABLE the deeper you get into things with her.